My goal is to offer support, empowerment and valuable self-awareness tools to those of you who wish to improve your life.
Coaching can have great impact in many aspects of one’s life, but instead of listing them I ‘d rather share my personal experience with you.
As you might have read above, I dedicated many years of my life to a career that on one hand offered me a lot but on the other took away just as much.
There was a long period where my basic needs were adequately met, and the balance leaned in my favor. However, life changes just like we do, and so do our priorities.
As time went by, I began to realize that I was losing more than I was gaining. A struggle began between my deepest needs and desires and what was expected of me. I tried to reason with myself and carry on with my career but it was impossible after a certain point.
For several years I prioritized work, colleagues, and obligations, while putting the things and people I love at the bottom of my list. I thought those who love me would be more understanding and tolerant and forgive my absence, while others wouldn’t.
So, I neglected all that mattered to me, in order to meet the requirements of others. I drained my energy, trying to hold on to my professional status up to a point I couldn’t do it anymore.
I had to push my limits to dare the change, but I finally did it.” I did out of pure necessity to break free. And when I did, I felt lost. I had no idea about my next step, and it was terrifying. I used to consider myself as I survivor who always knew how to make things work but now I was confused. I had to create a plan from scratch and do it fast.
My future at that point was a blank page. For the first time, I knew I needed help. Maybe an ally with a calm and clear mind, to help me decide which way to go. Having no specific goal, complicated things. All I knew was that from now on, I wanted to be happy and enjoy the important things in my life.
My Coach helped me do exactly that. My experience was transformative. I rediscovered myself, who I had suppressed for years, in order to receive affirmation, status and the praise of others, without realizing that I was trading my freedom imprisoning myself in the image I had built around me. I realize now that I was my own worst enemy.
I took responsibility and understood that my life and my happiness are both in my own hands. I began to channel my energy into myself and felt strong again. Truly strong this time. I reflected upon my emotions, my motives and actions.
I reviewed all my beliefs and convictions and realized that they were the only obstacles between myself and the life I desired.
Through this challenging and liberating journey, I found my purpose in life. I focus my energy to excel in what I do, finding pure happiness in the process.
My goal is to assist people like myself, who meet crossroads and are ready to transform their lives. Regardless of their age, background, or circumstances. Coaching empowered me to be my authentic self.
If this agrees with you, then you shouldn’t hesitate. Do your research, find a coach who fits you, and take the leap. You have only one life as yourself—make it count.
